According to self-confessed adulterers:
Research
into the behaviour of 4,000 cheats claims women are more promiscuous,
having an average of 2.3 secret lovers compared to a mere 1.8 for men.
The
UK Adultery Survey 2012 found that once women decide to play away, they
are far more likely to play the field in search of love.
While men claim the pursuit of sexual
excitement, boredom with their marriages and the need of an ego boost
are the main reasons for cheating, women say they are looking for
emotional fulfillment, an improvement to their self esteem and romance.
Female adulterers are also far more prone to falling in love with their illicit lovers than their male equivalents.
Emily
Pope of Undercover Lovers, a dating site for married people seeking
affairs with some 600,000 members, said the results of the survey
challenged the commonly held view that men are more adulterous than
women.
'Once they have made the huge decision
to have an affair, women have far more opportunity to actually find
someone to cheat with and are generally in control of deciding if and
when to consummate the relationship once they do,' she said.
The survey also found that women are likely to be the first to get itchy feet in a marriage.
While
unfaithful men don’t have their first affair until almost six years of
married life the average female cheater strays just five years after
exchanging wedding vows.
They are also usually younger than men when they stray with the average female adulterer starting at 37 compared to 42 for men.
Emily
added: 'More and more neurological research is revealing that male and
female brains are programmed differently when it comes to relationships.
'The
results of our survey bear this out, with our adulteresses seemingly
seeking something far more emotionally meaningful from their affairs
than their male partners.'
Both
sexes agree that monogamy is an unnatural state for humans even though
76 per cent of women and 67 per cent of men claim to still love the
spouse they are cheating on and more than 80 per cent of both sexes
intend to stay married.
However, the research also found that many adulterers are hypocrites.
More
than 40 per cent of women and almost 30 per cent of male would ask for a
divorce if they discovered their spouse was having an affair.
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